A FIELD GUIDE TO THE ORTHODOX CHURCH
Your First Divine Liturgy
One page. Print it, fold it, keep it in your pocket.
Before you go. Dress as if meeting someone important who also loves you. Men: no hats inside. Women: skirts or trousers both fine; most women cover their heads in Slavic and Romanian parishes, most don't in Greek and Antiochian ones. The posted time is usually the Liturgy, and Matins is already going when most people arrive. You're not late.
In the narthex. Light a candle and kiss or bow to the icon by the door if you'd like; it's optional for visitors. Then go in, find a spot toward the back, and stand.
During the service.
- 1WALK IN ANY TIME – even mid-service. Matins is already happening.

- 2"Blessed is the Kingdom" – the Liturgy begins.

- 3Hymns and litanies – "Lord, have mercy" is the people's part.


- 4SMALL ENTRANCE – the Gospel book processes.


- 5Epistle, Gospel, homily – sit for readings and sermon, stand for the Gospel.


- 6GREAT ENTRANCE – bread and wine carried in; not yet consecrated.


- 7The Creed – "I believe..." said or sung by everyone.

- 8COMMUNION – prepared Orthodox come forward, arms crossed; visitors stay or come for a blessing.

- 9Blessing and dismissal – "We have beheld the true Light."

- 10Kiss the cross, take the blessed bread, coffee hour.

Communion. For Orthodox Christians who have prepared. Visitors are welcome at everything else.
After. Line up to kiss the cross and take the blessed bread (antidoron). It isn't Communion, and in most parishes it's offered to visitors too. Then coffee hour. Go. Someone will ask, "Are you visiting?" and mean it kindly.
Crossing yourself is optional for visitors throughout. Standing when others stand is enough.
Nobody expects you to know any of this. Stand when they stand, sit when you're tired, and watch. You're a guest, and you're welcome. Just come and see.
